The author reflects on returning from Ukraine, where the question of "what was it like" probes deeper than mere factual reporting. Journalists are trained to maintain objectivity, focusing on conveying essential information clearly. Subjectivity is acknowledged but intentionally disciplined within journalistic standards. However, feelings and impressions are an unavoidable part of human experience and empathy. These emotions play a role in gaining knowledge and understanding situations. Journalism rituals and respect for readers and subjects necessitate keeping personal feelings in the background. The author, Charlotte Higgins, is the Guardian’s chief culture writer. Her book, "Ukrainian Lessons," exploring art in wartime Ukraine, is forthcoming. She will also participate in a panel discussion on war, art, and life with Ukrainian writers. Readers are invited to share their opinions on the article's themes.