From ‘mood hoovers’ to ‘energy vampires’ - here’s why negative friends are good for you | Emma Beddington

Jamie Oliver, upon reaching fifty, advocates for surrounding oneself with positive individuals and eliminating negativity. He believes this approach is crucial for a fulfilling second half of life. The author, however, humorously questions if this means Oliver must also avoid his own inner "mood hoover" or "energy vampire." This self-identification arises from the author's own tendency towards a more pessimistic outlook. The author finds the common, object-based descriptions for such personalities to be rather insulting. They prefer a more evocative term that acknowledges their emotional complexity. The article touches on common midlife anxieties like existential dread and a perceived loss of relevance. It also humorously notes a sudden interest in property television shows. The author seeks diverse perspectives on navigating these midlife challenges. Ultimately, the piece contrasts Oliver's strategy of outward positivity with the author's more introspective, and perhaps less cheery, viewpoint.