More than anything, I want my kids to grow into people who notice others and who care about the world around themMaking sense of it is a column about spirituality and how it can be used to navigate everyday life Several times a week, I write small notes on pretty stationery for my three-year-old daughter to take to kinder the next day. Sometimes the note is about how she shared a toy with a sibling, other times it is about how she helped someone without being asked and often it is praising her for saying thank you or please.