The one change that worked: I stopped planning holidays – and found the joy in travel

The author used to meticulously plan trips by researching online reviews and creating detailed itineraries. This habit stemmed from indecisiveness and a fear of wasting money on poorly chosen experiences. Before traveling, they would extensively research destinations on Google Earth, social media, and read countless reviews. This pre-trip planning meant they knew their destination thoroughly before even leaving home. The author's Google Maps would be overloaded with saved locations, and they'd try to fit everything into their allotted trip time. They sought out "hidden gems" based on online recommendations, hoping to find exceptional experiences. While some pre-planned spots, such as Bistrot Victoires in Paris, were truly memorable, most were disappointing. The reality often failed to match the idealized images and promises found online, leading to underwhelming experiences. The author realized that online representations frequently misrepresented locations and experiences. They made a shift in their approach to travel, abandoning rigid planning. Now, the author prefers to explore destinations spontaneously, guided by their senses rather than digital research. They now embrace the freedom of unplanned exploration, allowing for unexpected discoveries. This new approach allows for a less structured and more personal travel experience.